Men’s Work
Redefining pain & triggers as touchstones to deeper intimacy
Beneath every behavior there is a feeling. Beneath each feeling is a need. And when we meet that need rather than focus on the behavior, we begin to deal with the cause. Not the symptom.
Read MoreFear of the Feminine
Fear of the feminine and the Amazon fires was written in 2019 and is more relevant now more than ever. Men throughout millennia have attempted to dominate or control Nature in some form or another. Instead of standing in awe of her majesty, he has crumbled in fear and trembling at her feet resorting to…
Read MoreThe Burden of The Masculine
Getting in touch with and allowing the full expression of the unapologetic wildness within a man is paramount and points to his ultimate desire for freedom. Freedom, not in the sense of being single or if in a relationship wanting to “be free” but free from his “burdens “, and in reality once he gets…
Read MoreA Man’s Passage to Purpose; Unearthing the Gift in the Wound
The work of exploring the wound is not an easy path, yet if we don’t have the courage to turn and face our wounds, we will spend a lifetime running from them. In turn, they will run our lives unconsciously, and we may never know our greatest gifts.
Read MoreSex, Impotence and Finding The Warrior Within
Part of me no longer felt like a man. Up until the moment my injury happened, I was a vital, twenty-four year old man. I was six foot three, one hundred ninety-five pounds, athletic and handsome. Suddenly, I was about four foot eleven in a wheelchair and had no sensation or function in my penis, my bladder and my bowels.
Read MoreSolitude: The Furnace of Change
“The comfort I needed from the Great Mother energy I had imposed on the women in my life.” I guess I had always avoided being alone. It started with a deep dependence on my mother’s connection, as it was the only connection I had in my early years of development, yet it soon transposed itself…
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