Staff Writer
Performative feminine expression perpetuates internalized misogyny
Performative feminine expression only feeds palpable patriarchal norms and perpetuates internalized misogyny. Expression of the “femininity” as seen and defined through the prism of what engages “him” or calls him forward only suppresses the truest essence of what may lurk below. This contributes to unconsciously internalized misogyny. What lurks below may be dark, bloody, and…
Read MoreWhy Men Try To Control Women
What is this great obsession by men globally & historically to control, use and abuse women? From genital mutilation, child wives, burkhas, honor killings to laws regulating women’s choices surrounding her body. It’s important to note that male dominance is not the natural state of a human society; to the contrary, human society was matriarchal…
Read MoreRedefining pain & triggers as touchstones to deeper intimacy
Beneath every behavior there is a feeling. Beneath each feeling is a need. And when we meet that need rather than focus on the behavior, we begin to deal with the cause. Not the symptom.
Read MoreFear of the Feminine
Fear of the feminine and the Amazon fires was written in 2019 and is more relevant now more than ever. Men throughout millennia have attempted to dominate or control Nature in some form or another. Instead of standing in awe of her majesty, he has crumbled in fear and trembling at her feet resorting to…
Read MoreThe Burden of The Masculine
Getting in touch with and allowing the full expression of the unapologetic wildness within a man is paramount and points to his ultimate desire for freedom. Freedom, not in the sense of being single or if in a relationship wanting to “be free” but free from his “burdens “, and in reality once he gets…
Read MoreFire on the Mountain
To venture into the unknown is where we are met with the insights and clarity of what life wants to give and communicate to us.
Read MoreSolitude: The Furnace of Change
“The comfort I needed from the Great Mother energy I had imposed on the women in my life.” I guess I had always avoided being alone. It started with a deep dependence on my mother’s connection, as it was the only connection I had in my early years of development, yet it soon transposed itself…
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