Posts by Amir Khalighi
Overcoming Neediness
Unexpressed needs in intimate relationships invites the element of “neediness” to the relationship dynamic. Men oftentimes have a hard time identifying what their needs are. For so long they’ve looked to the outside world for solutions and answers, that they’ve lost touch with the wisdom and connection to their own bodies and needs. Men…
Read MoreRedefining pain & triggers as touchstones to deeper intimacy
Beneath every behavior there is a feeling. Beneath each feeling is a need. And when we meet that need rather than focus on the behavior, we begin to deal with the cause. Not the symptom.
Read MoreFear of the Feminine
Fear of the feminine and the Amazon fires was written in 2019 and is more relevant now more than ever. Men throughout millennia have attempted to dominate or control Nature in some form or another. Instead of standing in awe of her majesty, he has crumbled in fear and trembling at her feet resorting to…
Read MoreThe Burden of The Masculine
Getting in touch with and allowing the full expression of the unapologetic wildness within a man is paramount and points to his ultimate desire for freedom. Freedom, not in the sense of being single or if in a relationship wanting to “be free” but free from his “burdens “, and in reality once he gets…
Read MoreFire on the Mountain
To venture into the unknown is where we are met with the insights and clarity of what life wants to give and communicate to us.
Read MoreSolitude: The Furnace of Change
“The comfort I needed from the Great Mother energy I had imposed on the women in my life.” I guess I had always avoided being alone. It started with a deep dependence on my mother’s connection, as it was the only connection I had in my early years of development, yet it soon transposed itself…
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